I love that Ben is man enough to play and sing Backstreet Boys songs with absolutely no shame. More men need to stop worrying about how “feminine” something is and if they enjoy it, just enjoy it. It makes you more endearing and relatable.
At the same point, don’t act surprised when we tell you that we like something you find masculine, like sports. The fact that I am a huge fan of football doesn’t say anything bad about me, but it sure says a lot about you when you try to convince me I know nothing by assuming you are omnipresent.
Just when I think things are finally going my way and life is opening up and moving into the next phase…. something comes in and snatches it away.
I should know better than to be hopeful. I need to remember that when I hope it all blows up in my face. I will never have the life I want.